- to live for our Family
- to live for the Money
- to live for Love or
- to live for today, as yesterday was gone and maybe tommorrow will never come;
so what is the reason? I wonder.... =_=
Last week, was a "crazy" week for a dear friend of mine, Me, indirectly also got involved in it.
This evening, we had a good talk, she truly apologise and regretted having me involved in her complicated affair. - " No worries babe, what are friends for......"
Tue, wed and thur her uneventful disaster striked...
Tue> she was our sch bus driver cum asst tcher. Puntured a front tyre as it hit onto one of the stone curb near our driveway. There was a loud 'Pisssss.......' thk goodness the kids on the bus were unhurt. Bill came out S$133.00 to change new tyre. Initially and surposingly, this bill was covered by the school. Then the next day, principal asked her to pay for the damages....
(Shout-Out-Loud) So unfair!! What the h** is this , man! Why has my friend need to pay for the damage while she was at work? Isn't it covered by the company? Was'nt it stated clearly on the contract? Fyi my friend is a FT stuff. That was a shocker no.1 .
Wed> She received a call from her maid saying that the store room door was going to collasp. Of course instinct tells her to rush home. BUT bossy only gave her 2 hrs, told her to come back and drive the pm sch bus....
"Erm excuse me...?! 2 hrs for her to contact contractor, carpenter, take photos, isolate the area. Then wait for contractor and carpenter....etc all needs time. 2 hrs? Impossible!"
She did call back telling bossy that she can't make it. Reluctantly bossy let her off. My friend felt bad so she decided to explain to bossy the next day. But to her surprise, bossy told her that she already has planned who to drive the pm bus while my friend was in that "panic station" mode. "Wah lao what does this show?" My friend felt like a fool, a fool kanna play around left & & right....shocker no.2
Thur> My galfriend found out that her dd P4 played truant after school. Her dd lied to her that instead of going to the library, she and some friends went to the nearby shopping mall to have fun. That was the greatest blow my gf could ever endure, she eventually broke down. She could'nt believe that so much bad happenings could happen to her consecutively for 3 days ...
shocker no.3
All the above events took place when her dh was'nt in SIN. It really drove her nutz. Really can make a person 'PhD'. I also felt kind of 'useless' besides lending her my listening ear and a shoulder to cry on...what else can i do? We even asked another tcher (our so called 'closed' friend) out to talk & share her views but it was no avail. We felt that she might have kept somethings from us, which now does'nt bother me liao.... Haiz, FEMALE enviro sucks!
The only thing is Pray~~ and have Faith in whatever you do. As my best qoute says " To stay true to oneself always" ^_^
A message to my dear friend~Yvonne
When you are sad, I cry with you
When you are happy, I laugh with you
Although there are many obstacles along the way,
we must face them bravely and truly.
Motherhood is a holy job,
we are learning and growing from it everyday.
Rememeber you have friends,
reach out your hands
and we'll be there to hold on tight with you.....<3
p/s: Whatever decision you've made, I shall respect it. =)
