Monday, November 16, 2009

A series of events

Dear whoever is reading this post...my last post was like, in May??...OMG!! So many things as happen to me and my family all these months. Human life is really full of surprises and perhaps the ppl 'up there' wanna make fun of us. Nevertheless with such uneventful challengues, this made a family bind togather.

Well good news 1st, I passed driving on 23rd july :) It was my FIRST attempt and i made it! I guess it's a matter of whether u wanna put in effort or not. On the test day, stay humble and smile all the way can liao. I was also blessed with a "ah-gong" like tester. :p Got 10 demirit
pt out of 20. My driving instructors were very nice too. Now we keep in touch tru FB. Nice...

Somewhere in March next year, gonna shift house. Bought a Masionette, mum staying wif us. Hopefully by God's grace, my dad is able to hang on till that time. Read from my last post, i wanted to bring my dad for a body check up...why did'nt i perisist on?? haiz....

The "C" disease really creeps in so rapidly, my dad's prognosis is 6 mths. It came to a shock to my family and me. I was shattered...cried and have many sleepless nights. How i wish i can talk to someone heart to heart. Someone who really feels for my cries and pains...People says i am the stronger one compared to my sis, but again, even a bull needs a rest.

Its no use hovering abt the past and how my dad got the C disease, but to make him feel as comfortable and minimise the pain and agony. He has done so much for the family in his younger days and now he really needs a good rest and recopriate at home. We have decided to let my dad have pallative treatment rather than more chemo or pills. He has suffered so much side-effects already.

I'm gald and apprecaite what the Sinagpore goverment has done for the senior citizens esp on medical issues and care. The subsidies are a great help. Now every weekly, a nurse from hospice care will come and see my dad's overall well being. Thank you nurse Lai Kuan from Tan Tock Seng Hospital. :) U are truly a God send, caring and lend a listening ear to my family esp my mum.

ALLCARE graduation was last friday. It was raining cats & dogs. This year my morale was very low. Got Grace to be MC. thank you deary (Grace) I became the back stage worker. It was less crowdered and less fun as those guys that i wish to see have their commitments elsewhere. Nvamind...After grad, it will be my last week of work. I'll be leaving allcare. Take this time to reflect on myself , to remember all the fun we shared in a little house off Lichi Ave. I'll always remember that someone whom i dearly miss. But glad that things are going well, preaparing to move up to higher educational level and be a good & repectful adult in future to come.

I dunno what will be like in the future but to take things one at a time. Telling myself to be positive and live life happily day by day.